I will try to fix you

I will try to fix you

For every falling sun, there's a morning after

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Anonymous asked: I usually cut my thighs, but for some reason I started at my wrist. I was in an awful mind set, horizontal wasn't enough. I have about a two inch scar, it would be longer and deeper...unstichable...but my best friend texted me a link to this blog. I dropped the razor and snapped out of it. I still have scars, and recent cuts, but I'm on my way to realizing I have people who love me thanks to you're blog. Thank you so much, you're lovely :)

I’ve been having some bad days lately, but your comment made me smile and feel a whole lot better. You’re an amazing person for being so kind and taking time to talk to me, thank you. And I’m extremely happy my blog could help you. Congratulations for what you did! It’s not easy at all, you’re really strong. Keep going, you’re doing wonderful. Take care x

-M

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Anonymous asked: Thank you for making this blog. Honestly it brings me to tears to see that you spend your time to help people who you don't know. I have been depressed for quite some time and self harm but this blog has given me hope. Thank you.

Doing this makes me feel happy, I like to know I have the chance of giving people a little hope to keep fighting. No one deserves to be alone. Thanks to you, for being so nice and taking some of your time to thank me. I’m glad I can do something to make you feel better! And remember you can talk to me anytime you like. Take care and never give up, you’re doing great x

-M

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Anonymous asked: so i've been trying to cover my scars with makeup. i always get the lightest shade the store sells, but it's always too dark and looks weird in comparison to my right arm, which doesn't have any scars on it. also, some of the scars on my outer forearm are raised slightly since the cuts i made were deep and i didn't seek medical attention, so i have issues hiding those. help?

Here I have some information that can be useful, I posted everything I found there. I hope it helps you. I think you should ask for a little advice when you buy your makeup, I’m sure the saleswoman will be able to help you find the one that matches your skin the best. Take care x

-M

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Anonymous asked: Today I got diagnosed with psychotic depression. I'm 16 and have self harmed since I was 10.

Don’t label yourself as a sick person just because they said you have psychotic depression, that only makes your mind think you can’t get better easily. You have a problem, yeah. But everyone does, bigger or smaller. Now it’s time to try to solve it. I suggest you to try to see a therapist, if you want to. It has helped me alot, personally. I’ve also used these advices a lot while I was trying to stop cutting. Before you start anything, promise yourself you won’t stop until you make it, it doesn’t matter how many times you relapse. The only way you’ll fail is if you give up. I’ll be here if you ever need anything, yeah? Take care beautiful x

-M

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Anonymous asked: So there's this guy and we have a complicated relationship (we wanna date, but there's the problem of distance and never really seeing each other). Anyway, I feel like I should tell him about my self harm problem since he's told me everything about him. His past problem with pain killers and his family life and stuff. I feel like I'm not really being honest, but I'm afraid he'll drop me like as fast as he can once he finds out. I really like him and don't want to lose him, but I wanna be honest

If you feel ready to tell him, do it. Don’t wait until things get complicated and you feel guilty for not telling him before. If he’s told you everything about him that means he trusts you, it’s nice that he feels you trust him too. If he drops you for telling him your problem, he doesn’t deserve you. It’s really cliche, but it’s the truth. You need to be with someone who loves you for your virtues and flaws. Take care and good luck x

-M

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effythewriter asked: I love your blog! It's so helpful! I've been in the recovery process for almost a year but this helps a lot, to see someone who actually understands and not a doctor who pretends to.

Thank you! I’m very glad you find it helpful :) Sometimes is easier to help someone if you’ve been through the same experiences. By the way, congratulations for your recovery love!! It’s not important how much time it takes you to recover completely. Keep going, you’re doing very very well x

-M

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Anonymous asked: hi im ritika.i have cut marks on my wrist because of my father's beating.i want to surgery it.howmuch it costs in india?

Hello Ritika! I’ve been doing some research on the internet and I read it goes from $200 to $1800, depending on the size and depth of the scar. But I don’t know if the price will change much in India. I’m really sorry love, I live very far from there and I don’t know how prices work in your country. I suggest you to ask in a hospital, they’ll know what to tell you. If you don’t know who to talk to, just ask for a surgeon or scar surgery in the reception and they’ll tell you where to go, or call to the hospital. Does anybody know that your father beat you? If not, I think you seriously need to tell someone. Take care x

-M

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Anonymous asked: Hi :) I just wanted to say that it honestly moved me to tears when I saw this blog because I cannot believe how real and sweet and caring you are and I just wanted to thank you :) <3 Thank you and you really are a wonderful person <3

God, you’ll make me cry. This are the messages that make me want to keep doing this. I feel so so happy knowing that I can do something to help. Thanks so much to you love!! You’re really sweet. You made my night by the way :) Take care beautiful, you are an amazing person xx

-M

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Anonymous asked: Check out TheCloverChainProject Tumblr and join the revolution by combating loneliness in teens and young adults!

(X) Amazing blog! Everyone should check it out :)

-M

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Anonymous asked: Hi um, I've cut my wrists a few times, but not to the point where they're properly bleeding. I haven't told anyone and I never will because they'd overreact. I just want to know if it will scar my wrists and how I can stop people noticing them now that it's summer? Thanks so much

No need to thank love, that’s why I’m here. If the cuts are mostly superficial they probably won’t leave a scar, so don’t worry. Cover them while you wait for them to heal properly (read this, it can be useful) and then you can cover them with makeup (there’s waterproof makeup too). I can’t ask you to do anything you don’t want, but I think that you should tell someone at someday. Hiding this secret will only make it grow more and more, to the point where you won’t be able to control it so easily anymore. And those cuts will leave a scar. Believe me, it happened to me. Just think about it, please. If you ever need anything, I’m here, don’t worry. Take care x

-M

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